Healing After Abortion: Four Steps to Overcoming Loss and Grief

Abortion loss is a deeply personal and emotional experience that can have lasting effects on a person's mental and emotional well-being. The grieving process following an abortion can be complex and challenging, and it is essential to provide support and understanding to those dealing with this loss.

There are several strategies and approaches that can help individuals heal from the effects of abortion loss and grief. 

  1. Connect with a support group: Joining a support group can provide a safe and supportive environment to discuss feelings and experiences related to abortion loss. Sharing with others who have gone through similar experiences can provide comfort and validation and can help to reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness.

  2. Consider creative outlets: Creative outlets such as writing, painting, or music can also be powerful tools for expressing and processing emotions related to abortion loss and grief. These activities can help channel feelings in a healthy, effective way that provides a sense of peace and freedom.

  3. Engage in self-care practices: It is essential to engage in self-care practices that promote physical and emotional well-being—exercise, prayer, journaling, and leisure time in nature. Self-care can help to reduce stress and promote a sense of peace and calm during difficult times.

  4. Seek professional counseling: Seeking professional counseling can be an essential step in the healing process. A trained therapist can provide a safe and confidential space to process and cope with the emotional and psychological effects of abortion loss and grief. This type of professional support can help provide practical strategies and coping mechanisms for managing feelings of sadness, anger, and grief.


It is important to remember that healing from abortion loss and grief is a unique and individual journey. It is critical we approach this experience with empathy, compassion, and respect for  those who are dealing with this loss. Remember that there is no one "right" way to heal from abortion loss and grief and that it is okay to take the time needed to process and cope with this loss. Individuals can begin the journey towards healing and recovery by connecting with support groups, engaging in creative activities, practicing self-care, and seeking professional help if needed.


We are a pro-woman, holistic non-profit organization. We strive to provide clarity in your pregnancy decision while caring for your body, mind, and spirit. That’s why we provide a supportive environment to talk about an abortion experience and help women find healing. You are more than a number to us. You have a story that deserves to be heard.  


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